On September 21, we had our youth meeting. We had a great time playing darts and ping-pong while watching the Ravens/Browns game. We then sat down on the couches and had our lesson on “What The Frak”.
A new word out there is slowly making its way into the common vernacular. It’s being used on television shows and in blogs. It now appears on T-shirts, coffee mugs, and bumper stickers. Don’t expect it to be added to the dictionary anytime soon, though, because it doesn’t actually have a definition. The word is frak. The word was first coined by Glen Larson, the creator of the original Battlestar Galactica television show. It was invented as a substitute for the granddaddy of all four-letter swear words—the one that also begins with an “f.” Back in the 1970’s, the pseudo-curse was largely ignored. But now that the SciFi Network has been running a modernized version of Battlestar, it’s catching on. The show’s producers revel in using the word several times during each episode.
They use it as a verb, pronoun, or adjective, and in the past, present, and future tenses. And, while everybody knows what the word really means when used, producers can’t get into trouble with television censors because frak isn’t even a real word.
All of that backstory brings up an interesting question: Why can frak fly around ad nauseam without offending viewers, but if a celebrity lets the actual four-star swear word slip out on live TV, (commonly known as “dropping the f-bomb”), it makes huge headlines and results in steep fines from the Federal Communications Commission. Could it be that people are less offended by the word’s meaning and more offended by the word itself? It’s an interesting point to ponder from a Christian perspective, because Scripture tells us that God looks directly at our hearts and not just our actual actions and words. Jesus said that a man who looks lustfully at a woman has already committed adultery with her in his heart, and that anyone who harbors anger or hurls insults at another will be held to the same judgment as murderers (see Matthew 5:21-22, 27-28). For God, our intentions matter.
Oh My Gosh: Exodus 20:7
You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name
It’s the Thought That Counts: Matthew 5:21-22, 27-28
You have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, “You shall not murder”; and “whoever murders shall be liable to judgment.” But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will be liable to judgment.
Watch Your Mouth: James 3:1-12
From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this ought not to be so.
Purpose: To help youth be mindful of their choice of words.
We had good discussion as we went through the scripture and asked questions regarding the readings. Come out next week, as we look at how we handle crisis (Palin pregancy as the back drop).